I hear from a lot of unpublished writers--at least a dozen a week. I can break them down into two distinct groups.
Those that will get published, and those that won't get published.
The difference between the two doesn't come down to talent, or hard work, or luck.
The difference between the two is attitude.
The ones who will never get published, hope that they eventually will.
The ones who will get published, know that they eventually will.
If you want to be a member of any club, act like you already are a member. You can watch the party going on through the window and lament that you weren't invited, or you can figure out a way to get invited.
In short, to be a professional writer, you need to act like a professional writer, even though nobody is paying you yet.
Be confidant. Be bold. You aren't buying lottery tickets, you're choosing which people you'll allow to buy your product.
And here's the secret---no one is actually confidant. Everyone is faking it.
But if you fake it long enough, you begin to believe it. The more you act like a writer, the more you become a writer.
Once you take hope out of the equation, possibilities become eventualities.